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Why Don’t Men See The Little Things?

Have you ever gone to get a haircut and come home to your husband only to have him remain completely oblivious to the fact that anything about you has changed? Most women have had this experience. Men just don’t seem to notice these little things about us that we really wish they would see.

In part, this is due to the fact that men don’t really know much about women’s styles. They aren’t familiar with the difference between long layers and short layers of hair. They don’t know that girls dresses can range from miniskirts to a full pettiskirt style. Their lack of familiarity with the options that are available to women makes it all kind of seem the same to them.

Think of it this way, do you ever really see a difference between the two microchips he is thinking about getting for his computer or can you notice the slight change of sound after the tweaks the speakers in his car? Unless you’re really interested in these things yourself, you probably aren’t going to notice. And that’s what it boils down to – common interests. The man in your life will notice the little things when it comes to what the two of you have in common. As long as you haveĀ a lot in common, it shouldn’t matter that he doesn’t notice your latest haircut.

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